If it is the first text I initiate, and I had just met this girl and I'm expressing my interest, then yes I will use her name.
He says he's just comfortable around me and wants to cut back on the sex I was able to have sex pretty much every day and he found that exhausting so I've tried compromising.
I'm so glad you found your way here! I'm not sure if I should call him this time.
In fact, he will stand up for you against anyone, including your jealous relatives, backstabbing friends, conniving coworkers, etc.